Guilty of Not Feeling Guilty


Guilty of Not Feeling Guilty

By Winnie Yu

Guilty of NOT feeling guilty! Not long ago, I decided I wanted to write a blog about mom guilt. My thoughts leaped around. The sentences wouldn’t gel. Paragraphs refused to flow. I set the blog aside and took off to a writer’s conference. There in my hotel room, I realized a simple truth: I didn’t really feel that guilty.

And that’s when the guilt set in.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m no stranger to mom guilt. Who is? Mom guilt comes in all forms and from all directions. Me? I used to feel guilty for almost everything I did. I felt guilty for working. I felt guilty when I didn’t work. I felt guilty when I missed field trips. I felt guilty when I fed my kids fast food. I felt guilty for parking them in front of the TV so I could finish a project. I often felt as if everything I did wasn’t enough or wasn’t right.

Guilt became a part of life — a way of being. Perhaps because it was so pervasive, it became a bit like breathing — something I experienced every day and simply had to accept.

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3 thoughts on “Guilty of Not Feeling Guilty”

  1. Great article Winnie. I think every mom would relate to this. Motherhood is an instinctive thing but not without its challenges, “Am i doing this right’ or “Am I doing it enough’ are questions faced by every mom. But it is extremely satisfying especially when you see your kids growing up into good human beings. Very well written.

  2. It was so true I being a working mother I always had a guilt in me of not being able spend time with my son. But after reading the article I don’t feel so

  3. Thank You Winnie,That was so very liberating! I really needed that.My youngest is 26 my oldest is is 33,I have two in between.I have still been carrying the guilt luggage up until now,hopefully I can leave it up for grabs for the next sucker.I thought I would have to drag it to the grave,it probably wouldn’t have fit anyway.My grown children have honed their skills at dealing the guilt card to me.On the positive side,my grown children will recognize it when they see it coming thwart its evil spell. It’s amazing,I witnessed it,I see the Grandchildren can’t manipulate the same as my children,maybe they got vaccinated,lol.

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