12 Things You Need to Stop Saying to a Stay-at-Home Mom

Stay-at-home moms are resilient. They can deal with a dirty diaper blowout. They can manage their never ending load of laundry each week. They can handle their children’s public and often embarrassing meltdowns.

But if there’s one thing that a stay-at-home mom can’t and won’t tolerate: it’s stupid questions from people who assume that they do absolutely nothing all day. That, or think that there life must be like an extended vacation everyday.

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Here are 12 things you should never say to a stay at home mom!

1. What is it that you do all day?

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Many people think stay-at-home moms like to sit around and pig out all day while the hubby is at work and the kids are at school. Biggest misconception known to man ever! That’s because we also secretly pig out after everyone goes to bed, too.

2. Do you paint and draw with your kids everyday?

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Don’t assume that every stay-at-home mom likes to run a community art club from their dining room table. There’s nothing worse than cleaning up the mess artistic toddlers leave behind.

3. Do you shower in the morning?

Sure, some moms look like they just rolled out of bed during their Target runs, but that doesn’t mean we’ve neglected our personal hygiene altogether. At least not all of us…



Joanna has been following the world of entertainment and celebrities since '05, having served as the Editor-in-Chief of Celebrity News Service and as a personal assistant for one of the original James Bond screenwriters, producer Kevin McClory during her days in Ireland. These days she’s a mother, warrior, celebrity writer and Disney dreamer. And she eats a lot of peanut butter M&Ms, as well.

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