Hahahaha, yeah, OK.
One of the reasons my husband and I never had a wedding party the day we got married is because we didn’t spend a small fortune on a party. And while some people want to make those kind of memories (which I don’t object to whatsoever), it just wasn’t in the cards for us.
Being the frugalista I’ve always been my entire life, I wanted to put my money in a place that I could invest in, like a down payment towards a new house or a savings account at the time.
Not all brides-to-be feel the same way...