Kids Need to Learn Life Basics at School — Badly!


I often think about the things I’d do if I had a lot of money. (No, not shop retail at Nordstrom’s.) I’m talking meaningful things. Like ways I could give back, make an impact, and affect change. And there’s one idea I’ve had for a while now that I just keep coming back to whenever I have philanthropic thoughts.

Nope, it’s not a cure for cancer or a way to end world hunger, even though I wish I was qualified to make those things happen. What I’d like to do is something that I’m sure would greatly improve the quality of lots of lives, especially the lives of today’s youth. It’s something a little low on the general population’s radar, I’m sure, but no less significant.

If I had the resources, I’d like to design, build, and run a new type of school throughout the country. A school that kids would go to post-high school but pre-college. And not even for a year. Maybe just for a gap semester. I’m envisioning it as a place that would teach all our future generations of kids what I believe to be some of the most important life skills they can take with them into the world—skills they’ll use and rely on every day of their lives.

I’m not talking about skills like how to apply mathematical equations or conjugate Spanish verbs or properly answer an open response question. Those are obviously important ones, but they’re certainly not the kinds of skills most of us are going to draw on in our regular every-day lives after we graduate from school. I know I haven’t. Like the last time I needed to apply a physics formula was in eleventh grade physics.

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What I’m talking about (and don’t laugh cause this is serious), are skills like egg boiling and tire changing and sewing on a button and reading a thermometer. Skills like how to pump gas and check your own oil and reconcile a bank statement. These are real-life abilities that we all need in order to function in the real world. I mean, unless we’re all independently wealthy with a ton of hired help, we’re on our own to manage our To-Do List.

Think about it, how can any of our kids possibly manage in today’s world if they can’t cook for themselves or iron a shirt or make themselves a doctor’s appointment or recognize when it’s a bad time to check their Instagram feed? They can’t. And while it’s absolutely our job as their parents to teach them all of these important life skills, I think most parents will agree that our kids are oftentimes more responsive to the things they’re taught by people other than us.

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Right now, according to a video that came across my news feed this summer from ATTN:, today’s generation of kids aren’t being taught the essential life skills they need to survive in today’s world. ATTN: claims that 30% of kids in college haven’t got a clue how to boil an egg on their own. They also say that 52% of US teens can’t change a tire. And 70% of today’s youth can’t sew on a button.

Now I distinctly remember taking Mrs. Potter’s Home Ec class back in the late 70s, where I learned the finer art of making my own shark pillow and pot holders and the mad science behind button repair. But my own girls never had a class like that in junior high or high school. And even though I’ve hammered most of those things into my own girls’ heads, I wonder why every single school in this country isn’t teaching kids those kinds of skills.

At my Life Basics School, though, they’ll learn ‘em all.

We’ll have basic cooking classes and a basic personal finance class that teaches kids how to manage a personal bank account. We’ll teach kids how to use an ATM machine and how to write checks. We’ll educate them on how to navigate a kitchen and a laundry room. They’ll take basic Home Ec classes where they’ll learn how to sew on that button or use a sewing machine to hem a pair of pants.

I don’t know, maybe it’s because we’re a generation of helicopter parents who are constantly doing everything for our kids that’s made it impossible for many of them to learn to do for themselves.

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Whatever the case, this is our new reality and we need to do something about it. So I’m leaving a coffee can on my front porch. If you’d like to donate to the Life Basics School Fund, please drop in whatever spare change you have. Don’t worry, it’ll be legit…we’ll have our own football team (team jerseys sewn by our students, of course.)

 


Lisa Sugarman

Lisa Sugarman lives just north of Boston, Massachusetts. Read and discuss all her columns at lisasugarman.com. Or, find them on LittleThings.com, BeingAMom.life, GrownandFlown.com, Mamalode, More Content Now, and Care.com. She is also the author of LIFE: It Is What It Is and Untying Parent Anxiety: 18 Myths That Have You in Knots—And How to Get Free available at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and at select bookstores.


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