Before we get into this, let me just say this: no marriage is perfect. No husband is perfect and no wife is perfect. But that doesn’t mean we are allowed to consciously make decisions that would hurt or eventually destroy our families. Sure, I might make common missteps everyday: I forget to buy milk on my grocery runs, I sometimes forget to sign my child’s reading log or I’ll leave the water running upstairs, but trust me when I say that I would never do anything to deliberately hurt my partner and my children. They are my world and anything that hurts them, hurts me in return.
With that being said, there are still a lot of people out there that act on temptations. But I’m not here to judge them. We all have our faults. But that doesn’t mean that you should pull a Jude Law or a Ben Affleck and start dating the other woman that is taking care of your children. That’s why one nanny is opening up about how difficult it is to be an extension of another family these days. And it’s not because she can’t handle taking care of your kids. It’s your husband that’s the problem.